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Our home had been overtaken by fairy lights.

Christmas twinkle lights, boughs of evergreens, ribbons of red and the fragrance of pine filled the living room.  It was the night of our annual Christmas Party and I was ready.  I’d been decorating for weeks.  Even the bathroom had a sleigh in it.  Once a year our team gathers in our home to celebrate all that God has done through our little ministry.  We reflect.  We give thanks.  We feast.  We laugh.  And we get all dressed up to do it.

Also, it’s catered, so there’s that.

Anyway, this particular party is planned two months in advance and as it draws near the expectation of joy rises exponentially.

I had a pause on the afternoon of the party between setting out glasses and needing to get dressed so as often is the case, I went online and checked out what was happening in the world.  Take a look at emails.  Update my Facebook status.

When I did, I learned what had transpired that day and I wept with shock and despair – my soul was filled with anger and deep sorrow.  It was the day of the Sandy Hook Elementary shootings.

A lone gunman had opened fire on elementary school aged children killing twenty-six and seven year olds in a terrifying and horrific spree.  Six adult staff were also shot and killed.  It was the deadliest shooting in any school in the United States.  After brutally taking these precious lives, the gunman committed suicide.

I found my husband when I could contain myself and told him of the tragedy.  After weeping and praying together, we wondered if we should cancel the party.  How could we celebrate life in the face of such wickedness and loss?

And that’s when the phrase, “Defiant Joy” was born.  We would not cancel the party.  We would gather.  We would not pretend that the shooting did not take place nor that a whole community was grieving the children lost but we would proclaim that even so, even so, there is a reason to celebrate.  There is a reason to celebrate particularly at Christmastime when we gather to honor and remember the invasion of the Kingdom of God.  That’s what Christmas is, you know.  It’s an invasion.

The battle between good and evil could not have been made starker on that day and this looked like a victory for the kingdom of darkness.  Jesus, the light of the world, had entered the darkness and brought the light.  His unending life signaled the end to the rule of evil and proclaimed the ultimate victory of the Kingdom of God.  Yes, a battle is raging but Jesus has won it and we are invited to proclaim it and enforce it. 

When everyone had gathered in our home that night, we paused and prayed and in silence honored the children lost and the families forever changed.  And then we turned our hearts to the One who is our Hope in the face of loss and untold grief.  Because of Jesus, his death, his resurrection, and his ascension – because of his victory we chose to honor him and celebrate all the goodness that he has won and is winning still.

We feasted.  We talked long into the night by candlelight and Christmas music.  We lingered in one another’s presence drawing closer to the fire of each other’s hearts than we might otherwise have done because of the pain.  We were defiantly joyful.

Defiant joy is very different than mere defiance.  And it is completely other than denial.

Ignoring reality does not breed joy.  Pretending that what is true does not exist is not holy defiance.  The seeds of joy are firmly planted in the pungent soil of the here and now.  Joy embraces all the senses and is fully awake to the sorrow, the angst, the fear, as well as the laughter, the wonder and the beauty that is most presenting itself in the moment and says, “I have a reason to celebrate.”

Crazy right?  Sounds like God.  A God who laughs at the sneers of the enemy and stares suffering in the face and proclaims with fierce love, “You do not have the final word.”  And as he does, he captures our deep heart with a hope that defies death.

 

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Stasi Eldredge loves writing and speaking to women about the goodness of God. She spent her childhood years in Prairie Village, Kansas, for which she is truly grateful. Her family moved to Southern California back in the really bad smog days when she was ten. She loved theatre and acting and took a partiality to her now husband John...READ MORE

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